A jihad against My Sperm Donor

My Sperm Donor

You beat the fuck out of my mother, then when she left you, she still had the heart to try and let you get to know me, and you refused time and time again. You spoke to me once in the first 11 years of my life. Then, the first time you met me, all you could do was trash-talk me to my mother, even though my step-mother told my mother and me that I was an absolutely wonderful kid and spent two hours BRAGGING about me!

You treat me like SHIT every chance you get!

You didn't even send me an email with "Happy Birthday" when I turned 17, and yet you felt you had a right to be a dick to me the next day when I told you that I was living with someone, and that he'd been living with mum & I for almost a year. You went so far as to tell my mother that I was behaving like her and "roping someone in" like she did to you. You were 25. She was 15. Yeah, who did the roping, asshole?

All teenager roping aside, guess what? He and I have been together for over four years now. Longer than you and Mom -- and you were married and had a kid.

You're still pissed off that my mother had the balls to leave your abusive, cheating, self-centered ass, and you take it out on ME.

You're a fucking moron who damn near ruined my mother, but she saved herself.

You can't hurt her anymore, so you hurt me to hurt her.

But guess what? I'm not letting you hurt me anymore. I'm better than you'll ever be, you selfish coward.

Fuck off and die, asshole.
Declared by Finally Changing My Name on Monday, October 8, 2007